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Mr Felix Economakis
Numan
How do you talk to your partner about a sensitive issue in the bedroom?
Felix Economakis advises that you can talk to your partner about something sensitive in the bedroom by using the ‘feedback sandwich’ wherein you list something positive, then the negative, and then ending with another positi
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ow do you talk to your partner about a sensitive issue in the bedroom? We recommend something called the feedback sandwich. So the first part of the sandwich is to say something nice like John or Mary you know I care for you, I find you attractive and I love you. So remember they're worried about this thinking oh no they're gonna breakup with me or my worst fears are gonna be confirmed. But you saying no, no, no, none of that, I love you, I care for you, I find you attractive but this thing, this problem is popping up recently and it's a shame it kinda gets in the way so I'd really like to resolve it before it builds into something else and remember I wanna have sex with you, we have a great sex life, which is the last part of the sandwich. So in-between there's a little bit of critiquing and in-between on either side you've got affirmations that I care about you, you're desirable and attractive.